You Can’t Judge a Book by Its Cover – Any More


This essay appeared in the Philadelphia Inquirer’s Editorial page on May 31 in a shortened form. Here it is in its entirety. Enjoy.

Although we’re not judgmental about material things like clothes or cars, we do confess to judging a book by its cover. But these days, when everyone’s Kindle case is the same color, that’s harder to do.

The judging starts when you are young. In elementary school, reading groups are color-coded according to “reading readiness.” Yellows are independent readers; blues need the teacher’s help, and everyone knows what group you are in. In high school, kids in AP English read Things Fall Apart by Chinua Achebe, while the grade-level readers plow through Suck It Up by Brian Meehl. Everyone knows what class you are in.

Today, when we walk down the aisle of a plane or train looking for our seats, we can’t help but glance at what people are reading and form snap judgments. Seat 8C is reading USA Today: He’s unprepared; he had to take the free newspaper from his hotel. The guy with the Harvard Business Review: He must be an important CEO, but he’s not sitting in business class.

The woman with the Harlequin romance: Easy, fun read, but at least she knows what she likes. The student reading James Joyce’s Ulysses: Who’s he kidding? He’s going to fall asleep after five pages. The elderly gentleman holding up a large magnifying glass in one hand and Thucydides’ The History of the Peloponnesian War in the other: He gets props for being old school all the way.

When we visit someone’s home, the books on their shelves give us another opportunity to assess their interests and intellect. Sure, there are people who buy the leatherbound set of Shakespeare just to look intelligent and people who don’t care that their bookshelves are crammed with used paperback mysteries, but we are neither of these extremes.

If you judge us by what’s on our shelves — Selected Poems of Elizabeth Barrett Browning, the glossy art book on Frank Stella, and How to Win at Tournament Bridge – we might appear to be pretty erudite, but what you don’t know is that our shelves haven’t changed in 30 years, and we haven’t opened that book of poems since college English Lit class. Our books are more museum display than current commentary.

What’s current is on our e-readers, and no one can judge us by what we are reading because they can’t see the cover. An e-reader lets us secretly read trash, and we, along with millions of other women, are doing just that.

We both gave in to the lure of the hottest new book — Fifty Shades of Grey. Suburban moms were missing the carpool pickup because they were engrossed in the sex scenes in the book. When a friend’s book club abandoned Ann Patchett and started analyzing sadomasochism, we knew we were missing something. How could we resist downloading this “mommy porn,” especially since we could do it anonymously?

Much like teenage girls who are embarrassed to bring their tampons to the register, we would have been embarrassed to ask a hipster bookstore clerk to ring up a hard copy of Fifty Shades of Grey, but it was easy to click on “add to cart” and waste $9.99.

We don’t have many books on our e-readers. We prefer to pick up and hold an actual book. We used to find any excuse to go to the bookstore. We enjoyed flipping through the colorful photos in Bobby Flay’s Mesa Cookbook, offering travel advice to a woman planning a trip to Costa Rica, and complaining to another mom about the college application process in the SAT study guide aisle. But there’s nowhere to do that in our neighborhood anymore. Three large bookstores have closed, and browsing on Amazon is not the same as browsing in a bookstore.

That’s why we were so anxious to introduce ourselves to the woman we saw in the waiting room reading The Help. We loved that book! We saw the movie, too! We like her already.

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7 Responses to You Can’t Judge a Book by Its Cover – Any More

  1. Ladies, your piece rings bells for me, as always, but particularly now when I have this not-so-secret hope that when I look down from my squished-to-standing spot on the train I’ll see people holding my book, or scrolling through it on their e-readers. I just looked at the first bits of 50 Shades of Grey and now want to see what it’s all about!

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    • i’ll always remember standing in the supermarket….years and years ago, when i had an article in Parents mag ..I accosted a lady in the check-out line, grabbed the magazine and made her look at my by-line. and just saying…your erotica is waaay better than S of G …it’s really badly written.

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      • Oh, you’re too kind…but see what you think about the bits of Victorian sexiness before you say that! And I remember you telling that story! How could you NOT ask her to look at the magazine?

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  2. Mary Fiedler says:

    My kids wanted to get me an e-reader for Christmas..NO Thanks!! If I pay for a book, I want a book. Many conversations have started because of books, public and private. I think this is just another way not to interact with people. I very rarely refuse conversation to read, even when the talker is a stranger ( not weird, tho! )Thanks, Mary Fiedler

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    • Thanks for your note, Mary. I only had one book on my e-reader, but on Tuesday I was reading Time magazine and there was a glowing review of a new book called “Gone Girl” by Gillian Flynn and I clicked and downloaded it within a minute. Now that’s instant gratification. Although I haven’t started to read it yet – so I could have gone out and bought a hard copy.

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  3. Mike Kritzer from walletsforwomenreview.com says:

    You will find, according to the report, “four times more people reading e-books on a typical day now than was the case less than two years back.” Forty-two percent of e-book readers read their e-books on some type of computer, and 29 percent read e-books on their cellphones. As for those who read both electronically and the traditional manner, they said they favored e-books when they wanted a book in a hurry, when they were traveling or commuting, and when they were looking for a broad variety.

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    • Joyce Eisenberg says:

      Thanks for your comment. I just published a book with my husband, entitled “The Scoop on Breasts: A Plastic Surgeon Busts the Myths” and it’s available in every possible e-book version and for every device. Your stats make me happy! Happy holidays to you. – Joyce Eisenberg

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